So now I am going to circle back to this goliath-sized topic. Peggy Olson started this whole thing. (Peggy by the way is so in love with Don Draper that she really had no choice but to leave the agency. Feel free to say I'm crazy on that one but did you see her face when he kissed her hand? 'nuff said.) Maybe I should ultimately blame, I mean thank, Matthew Weiner. His irresistible boys of Mad Men typify this brain twisting debate - What is the difference between sexy and handsome? Can you be one without the other?
Don Draper? No. Roger Sterling. And yes I will admit I have an undeniable "thing" for silver foxes. And for you returning bloggees, my complex affinity for one has already been documented. I cannot take my eyes off of Roger Sterling. Don Draper is clearly handsome and if he takes his shirt off I won't be leaving the room. But there is something about him that leaves me luke warm. Even with all the mysteries of his past which by all accounts I should find "intriguing" he still does nothing for me. He's boring. There is no spark. Roger on the other hand? Well, how much I like a particular episode of this fantastic program is directly proportional to how many Pounds Sterling it has. He has a way of being in the moment without taking any of it too seriously. He's the kind of guy that notices, and yes, catalogues, every woman within a one mile radius. And yes, the Gloria Steinem in me should be offended. I'm not. I can't help but wonder if I would make the Sterling cut.
Handsome is something that can be empirically, operationally measured - the square of the jaw, the width of the shoulders. Sexy is comprised of intangibles that make you slightly uncomfortable and squirm in your seat. The handsome one has nice eyes, but the sexy one stares into your soul and leaves you feeling a bit naked. Roger always makes me uncomfortable - painfully self aware. If I were in this agency's secretarial pool I would be the one always bumping into things whenever he was around.
Roger once told Joan that her lips were like a drop of strawberry jam in a tall glass of milk. Not sure how she remained standing after hearing that. A YouTube comment on a Mad Men clip summed it up perfectly: "This guy is the epitome of chill." Bingo. Now, if Captain Chill jumps into a pool of Piranhas I'm going to have to stop watching...for my own sake.